Life: Birthdays

**Xellos** · April 28th, 2004, 06:53 PM

I can't stand chemistry >_< Good luck...

I'd like to have my wedding on some mountain or something.

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**One Classy Bloke** · April 28th, 2004, 07:20 PM

...Weddings are a rip off though.

Me and Wife to be: "We could have a big wedding, or we could have a big house and financal security..."

Which would you pick?

**mrwiseman** · April 28th, 2004, 08:28 PM

IRT Beat-chan:

I've seen wedding documentaries on tv that have the ceremeony at some scenic area or historical buildings and ships. One of em took place at this Japanese style restaurant and it had a beautiful courtyard with a Japanese garden too. I thought it was nifty but that's just me [img]tongue.gif[/img] since I wouldn't really want it in a church.

That rocks. I've heard of a few places that will do that (like manors or castles).

biochemistry is what I plan on slaving away on in college (hahhaha mad scientist, not really)

That's pretty cool, good luck with it!

IRT OCB:

"We could have a big wedding, or we could have a big house and financal security..."

Or we could have a medium-sized wedding and ask 'rents for some money if it's too much, and we can get our new home furnitured and get all the stuff we need with a gift list in the wedding.

You only marry once in a lifetime (or at least that's the idea); it's a unique moment and a big change in your life. I think it deserves a special celebration, and something that will make you remember it as the dearest, most special time in your life. YMMV.

**One Classy Bloke** · April 28th, 2004, 08:32 PM

But what about the odd divorce? Then you've wasted a lot of cash.

**mrwiseman** · April 28th, 2004, 09:04 PM

I don't think I'd have a bright future if I found the special person and I was going to marry her thinking on divorce. If I'm going to marry somebody, it's with the absolute certainty that I love her to death, and spending each and every one of my days with her is what I want most in the world.

**Ogreasy** · April 28th, 2004, 10:59 PM

Well, the reason people have fancy wedddings is so that if you marry a rich girl you show her that you aren't in it for just the money, which you may or not be in it for.
Basically it sort of says "See? I told you I really loved you now sign this paper that says when you die I get your cash."
Thats what I rhink of marriage.
I'm evil.